THE
TRADITION OF THE CHRISTMAS PRESENT ORNAMENTS
When
my husband was five years old, he wanted a watch. His parents told
him that he had to learn to tell time before they would get him one,
so he went to his grandmother and she taught him. At Christmas, he
had a package under the tree with a red, loopy ribbon bow on it. As
you probably already guessed, the package contained a watch. But
there is more to the story—something that affects what my family
does today. His mother saved that red, loopy ribbon bow and put it on
his “main” Christmas present the next year, and the year after,
and the year after, for as long as she lived.
My
husband and I dated for two years before we married. During that
time, they put a blue package ornament on my present from them and
continued to do so as long as my mother-in-law lived.
After
her death, my father-in-law gave us their Christmas decorations and
he just used the 12-inch ceramic Christmas tree that his mother had
given his wife. That red, loopy ribbon bow and the blue package
ornament were among the things he gave us. We kept up the tradition
of using those package ornaments through the years.
We
were married about ten years when our daughter was born. We bought
her a Holly Hobby package decoration to keep the tradition going.
When our son was born, we got a green and white stick horse for his
“main” present.
My
husband was five when the red, loopy ribbon bow first appeared on his
present, so it has seen about 65 Christmases. We’ve been married
for 44 years, so my blue ornament has been used about 45 times. Holly
Hobby and the stick horse have been on presents for more than 30
years each. When our daughter married over 10 years ago, we got her
husband a snowman for his package decoration. It has been on his
packages ever since.
The
next generation has come along with our granddaughter. Last year—her
first Christmas with us, we got her a pink heart to attach to her
present. We will be using it again this year.
Oh,
there is one more thing about the present ornaments. We never put
names on these presents. Everyone knows by the ornament who gets the
present and everyone knows that the present came from us.
One
of these days, we will have to pass down these package decorations to
the next generation. I have every faith that our children will keep
the tradition going.